If you lack wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.
James 1:5 NIV
https://james.bible/james-1-5
But the wisdom that comes from heaven is pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. So peacemakers who sow in peace reap a harvest of righteousness.
James 3:17-18 NIV
https://bible.com/bible/111/jas.3.17-18.NIV
Heavenly Father, Creator of all things, blessed be the name of the Lord, who gives and takes away. Thank You, Father, for giving Your only Son to remove the world’s sins through His death on the Cross to those who believe and trust in Him. He laid down His life for sinners like me; and gave us His Holy Spirit to guide and empower us to do Your will; I can’t do anything on my strength or will because there is nothing good of myself. Please give me the wisdom that comes from heaven: humility, spirituality, purity, peace-loving, considerate of others, merciful, and full of good fruit. I repent of the ungodly things, such as bitter envy and selfish ambition. May the blood of Jesus and His name cast out every evil practice of my flesh in Your sight. Protect me, my children, and their offspring Lord, from the false wisdom this world teaches, such as envy, unspiritual, strife, and selfish ambition, which are demonic. May Your Good Spirit guide and protect us in all our ways; may I live my life as a reflection of Your goodness, Jesus, bringing glory and honor to You in every deed. amen
