After the death of my son, everything seemed to go darker than the night. I sat alone, in shock; I couldn’t process what was happening around me. I saw, behind the mask, a coldness I recognized: the secrets hidden, familiar faces from the past. There was a heaviness in the atmosphere, but I couldn’t explain…
Category: GRIEF
I lost my only son on October 31, 2021. I know the pain of grief, and it is an indescribable pain I wish no one has to endure. However, if you feel this pain, please join me and help me through this process. If you have not, here, I would like to give you a few tips about how you can comfort a grieving parent.
Freedom from the Sin of Unforgiving: Understanding ‘Love Your Enemies’ in Grief
Lord, as we open Your Word, be gentle with our hearts.Guard every wounded place, and let nothing we say add harm—only light, comfort, and truth. In Jesus’ Name, Amen. “But love your enemies, and do good…” – Luke 6 (A Tender Unpacking) When we read, “Love your enemies, and do good…” (Luke 6:27, 35), it…
When Injustice and Forgiveness Collide
Anchored in Colossians 1:20–22 There is a space where grief and justice intersect—a place where the human heart cries out for answers, accountability, and truth. It is in this place that forgiveness feels almost impossible. Likewise, it is impossible to forget the one who helped you heal when he could have rightfully walked away, but…
Today: Evening Reflection
Evening Reflection — The Light Still Shines (October 31 — In Loving Memory of Ramon Liles, 9•20•1978 – 10•31•2021) Scripture:“The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.” — John 1:5 As the day draws to a close, I pause in the quiet.The world has gone still, and yet, deep within,…
Today: Evening Prayer, Presence
Evening Prayer — Presence (October 30) Scripture:“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” — Psalm 34:18 Reflection:Today, I was reminded of the beauty of simply being present.A student asked me to stand near during the school fire drill — not to speak, not to comfort, but just…
Letting Go: Embracing God’s Purpose in Grief
When I saw the movie, “Let it Go.” In the blink of an eye, a minister’s life was turned upside down. One minute, he was laughing with his family. The next moment, a drunk driver took the lives of his wife, their unborn child, and two other children. After his loss, he shut down. Everything…
Forgiveness and the Pursuit of a Pure Heart
“Blessed are the pure in heart; for they shall see God.” (Matthew 5:8) As I reflect on the Word, ‘Pure heart,’ I pray for the wisdom of God and seek to understand the perspective of others. I recognize that we are all wounded in some form. Additionally, being aware of the wounded other makes it…
Healing Through Compassion: Breaking Barriers
Jesus went through all the towns and villages. He taught in their synagogues. He proclaimed the good news of the kingdom. He healed every disease and sickness. When he saw the crowds, he had compassion for them. They were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd. Then he told his disciples, “The harvest is…
Embracing Grief: Finding Peace in the Waves of Sorrow
After my son died, I couldn’t grieve; I was paralyzed with shock. I couldn’t accept that my precious son was gone. The Holy Spoke to me through this poem. It was like He was saying, “Jesus Wept too.” Grief is not our enemy. Grief helps us heal, Grace helps us grow.
A Fatherless Father’s Day
A Father’s Day without a Father “5 Behold, I will send you Elijah the prophet. He will come before the great and dreadful day of the LORD. He will turn the hearts of the fathers to the children. He will turn the hearts of the children to their fathers. Otherwise, I will come and strike…